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MERCURY GOES RETROGRADE 9/9/2022-10/1/2022

Posted on Sep 06, 2022

Hey Yo! Mercury will be going retrograde from September 9th 2022 until October 1st 2022.

This Mercury Retrograde period is here to let us know we can’t take no sh!t from anyone. As we’re in this retrograde, we will be reminded of who is for us, and who’s not. So all in all, the theme here is relationships. Relationships intimate and platonic are always a form of transportation- taking us to where we’re destined to go.

Hey Cardinal Signs! 5 of Knives message says that you may be reminded of a disagreement and it may be coming back around. You may feel as though your side of the argument was valid- but what you will see is that you’ve lost a connection. Losing connections repeatedly- you’re going to realize you’re alone. Yes, being alone is OK; but if this is a theme… it’s YOU. Working on your communication, and your compassion are imperative to healing yourself. You will begin to realize, you’re so short with others because no one has given you grace from an early age. It’s hard to give what you haven’t had. This process is going to be humbling, but it’s worth it.

Hey Mutable Signs! 8 of Baskets message says you may be confronted with things that you’ve been emotionally escaping from. This can be a variety of things obviously… but let’s focus on the theme of relationships. What’s coming through for me to share here, is that you may not be seen or heard in your relationships- and have been trying to keep the peace. Ya’ll mutable signs obviously go with the flow- but that will get old. Right now it’s become ancient. The things you’ve been putting off will become unavoidable within your body. Misplaced emotions become extra weight to carry, and breed resentment. Use this time to journal and dialogue your true feelings so you can get it out rather than keep it inside wishing it will go away.

Hey Fixed Signs! 7 of Knives message expresses trying to make amends- and truths revealed . You’ll soon uncover what someone’s secret agenda has been- and it doesn’t have to be negative . It just can be a reveal of character.

One of my Elders told me once:

“When you meet someone, a first impression is good- but that ain’t who you’ll know. That’s their representative putting their best foot forward”. What is coming for me to share is that you’ll soon see their true intentions, and it’ll be up to you to see if it’s what you want. Sometimes it isn’t about what you want though. It’s about what you need. Be open to the lessons that come along with this experience.

Wishing you all Healing and Clarity through this murky retrograde. This is a great time for a reset, a cleanse and prayer. I plan on doing a cleanse of my social media and an internal reset juicing or raw foods. I want my inner world to support my outer world! So when making changes it’s always good to make one external and one internal. I hope this helps!

STRENGTH… ACTUAL AND FACTUAL.

Posted on Sep 03, 2022

Hey Yo!

I was at the Shoppe yesterday , and a channeled message came through to me.

“True strength isn’t what you can lift and carry- it’s what you can release and put down.”

Many of us hold on to things and take on things we never had business picking up.

Have the strength to let go… letting it go opens up space for new opportunities to come your way.

If you’ve been holding on – ask yourself this question “If something is heavy- why do I want to hold it?”

With the acknowledgment of that- know you’re stronger than you anticipated because you’re consciously looking at what needs to shift.

Short and sweet I know- but I had to share!

THE LAST DAY OF AUGUST…

Posted on Aug 31, 2022

I woke up this morning thinking about time and how that it truly waits for no one. I can not believe how fast this Summer has moved along! To me the last day of August is always sad because the little girl in me always remembers that school starts in September.

Now as an adult, I am grateful for September because it now signifies learning and the ability to learn still. Additionally it is my birthday month… and the Summer as a season isn’t over until my birthday.

I’m grateful for each September in ways I haven’t been in the past. This morning I selected a card and it hit me!

The card was Live out Loud! What a blessing that is, and the message just poured through me… not only for me; for you as the collective too.

Live out Loud is represented by Yasigi- a Celebration Goddess of the Dogon people in Mali. For the Dogon, she was the first Yasigne. Yasignes are women who are elevated to participate in some of their most Sacred Masked ceremonies.

The message this card brings is that being your most potent self is being you! No one else. You’re not meant to make everyone on your path happy. You’re meant to stay your own path and make yourself happy by being authentic within your time spent here.

Every singer has a song you may not like- but it doesn’t discredit their talent.

Use your time wisely, and express your highest value to yourself- it will flow to others naturally .

Your declaration your be “I am free to express myself fully and completely, Solely and wholy.”